In the complex tapestry of life, many individuals find themselves woven into a unique generation known as the "Sandwich Generation." The term, coined to describe individuals who are squeezed between the responsibilities of raising their children and those of caring for aging parents, represents a growing demographic facing difficult challenges.
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It is estimated that 11 million people are now part of the Sandwich Generation and it’s one of the fastest growing segments in America. Here are some of the ways you can protect and care for your family, if you are part of the Sandwich Generation.
Members of the Sandwich Generation often find themselves stretched thin, with numerous responsibilities on their shoulders. On the one hand, they must meet the emotional and financial needs of their children - providing education, support, and a nurturing environment. On the other hand, they must navigate the challenges of caring for aging parents, which may involve medical issues, financial security, and ensuring their parents' are still able to take care of routine daily activities.
This dual caregiving role can be emotionally and physically taxing. It may also present legal challenges, depending upon each family’s circumstances.
While the challenges can be significant, there are several strategies that can help families navigate this phase of life.
Plan for Your Parents
The Sandwich Generation should engage in careful financial and estate planning for both themselves and their parents. It is imperative that the family have a plan in place to prepare for the possibility, and probability, that at least one of their elderly parents will need long term care.
Skilled nursing care can cost anywhere from $6,000 to $15,000 per month. These expenses can quickly deplete the parents’ retirement and the family nest egg.
Plan for Yourselves
The Sandwich Generation must not only plan for their parents, but also for themselves to protect their own families. The earlier the better is the rule when it comes to both estate planning and financial planning.
Seeking the advice of professionals who are familiar with these situations, including financial planners, estate planning/elder law attorneys, and tax advisors, can be invaluable in creating a strategy that balances the needs of all family members.
Legal Documents You May Need
In order to plan and prepare, it is important to have the appropriate legal documents in place, including:
These documents will allow the family, or other appointed fiduciaries, to make important decisions, when necessary.
Without these documents in place, the family could find themselves in a situation where their hands are tied and they are unable to communicate with health professionals, manage their parents’ money, or fund nursing home costs. Long-term care insurance, if purchased ahead, can also help ease the burden of long term care costs.
Implement Self-Care
Caring for both children and aging parents can take an emotional toll. Feelings of guilt, exhaustion, and anxiety are not uncommon.
It's essential for members of the Sandwich Generation to prioritize self-care and seek support when needed. This might involve respite care for aging parents, enlisting the help of other family members, or joining support groups to connect with others facing similar challenges.
Start the Conversations
It’s important to start the preparations and conversations before any health or financial crisis occurs. Many parents have trouble relinquishing responsibilities, but there are free legal guides that can help you start these sometimes difficult conversations. View or download the guides here.
Communicate Openly and Often
Communication among the involved family members is key. Open and honest communication is vital for successfully navigating the Sandwich Generation role. Clear discussions about expectations, responsibilities, and financial planning can help avoid misunderstandings and reduce stress. It's important to involve all family members, including children who may have questions or concerns about the caregiving situation.
While it can be challenging to be a member of the Sandwich Generation, with careful planning, support, and open communication, it is possible to navigate this role successfully. Balancing financial responsibilities, prioritizing self-care, and seeking assistance when needed are crucial steps toward finding equilibrium in the midst of these dual caregiving duties.
If you are a member of the Sandwich Generation, there are a plethora of resources that can help ease your burden. For over 65 years, we have served our community and would love to assist or help connect you with the resources you need!
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